Break free from the grip of guilt, anger and overwhelm and create more calmness for both you and Your Person with dementia


Get the roadmap and tools to break free from over-eating, anger, guilt and overwhelm and discover how to significantly reduce anger, stress and resistance  in your person with dementia.

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Are you struggling with any of the following?

  • you feel overwhelmed or numb 
  • you find it hard to manage your person's behaviors
  • you often over-eat and you don't seem to be able to stop it
  • you often feel angry and frustrated 
  • feelings of guilt or dread are common
  • you often feel alone in this journey

There is nothing is wrong with you!

You may have heard this a million times:

“You need to take care of yourself!”

"Stay calm!"

“You need to eat healthy, meditate, and exercise!”

“Just eat an apple instead of that bag of chips!”

You probably know exactly what you should be doing.

But somehow it isn't working, whatever you try.

Food is perhaps the only thing that gives you a little comfort and peace in the moment… well, until it's not and you feel the guilt and frustration about it. It's exhausting. 

Stress, anger, and guilt are overwhelming

You may wonder what's wrong with you!

Please allow me:

Nothing is wrong with you! 

There is so much going on in your life.

Your family member has dementia, and the stress, worry, grief and overwhelm are now part of your new normal.

It's hard to phathom what you are dealing with.

First, you are trying to figure out what’s going on, finding ways to do things and to get the right services and help in place. You are dealing with challenging situations, trying to help your person manage his or her behaviors and moods, while taking care of yourself also… and perhaps you're trying to manage other family members as well.

Secondly, you are going through your own inner emotional process: guilt, anger, sadness, stress, worry, grief, resentment and these comprise the emotional side of the situation. This can vary from subtle to feeling overwhelmed.

Getting some tips and insights here and there can definitely be helpful but what you really need is the right strategies and tools to:

  • understand the real saboteurs and how to break free
  • manage your stress levels 
  • break free from the grip of guilt, worry, or anger
  • help regulate your person's nervous system 

 I want you to get powerful strategies to understand what to do, how to do it at the right timing. The tools that help both you and your family!

Jeff von Bergen, Manager, Fraser Health Authority

That was an extremely informative and well-done presentation.  I had agreed to attend your presentation despite thinking I knew everything I needed to know about Dementia and really didn’t expect to get anything out of it.  Was I ever in for a surprise.  I quickly realized I knew very little!  I found myself thinking about it for several hours and days processing my new understanding.   Thank you for that

These myths keep you stuck in a vicious cycle:


MYTH 1: 

"There is nothing I can do about the difficult behaviors". From neuroscientific research we now know that we can calm parts of the brain of people with dementia by creating the right experience. The environment of the person needs to be set up so that the person experiences a sense of safety and connection. The good news is that this can be done in a simple and doable way!

MYTH 2: 

"There is no time to learn new tools, besides I have tried many times, things don't seem to work".  It's not only about what to do and how to do it, but also about timing! Learning these tools will allow you to let go of a lot of struggle and will help you save time! 


"If my family member is not well, it feels selfish to work on myself!".  We know from interpersonal neurobiology that if you feel good, the people around you, especially your person with dementia, will benefit tremendously. Not only because you have more bandwidth to handle difficult situations, but also because your person's nervous systems will calm down as a reaction to your calmness. Feeling calm and joy is not about leaving your person behind, it is the opposite. It will lift up your person. 

What you need are the tools and insights to break free from the vicious cycle

Stop swimming upstream!

I want you to:

  • live a full life
  • be able to cope with the difficult moments without sabotaging yourself
  • feel a sense of control
  • enjoy meaningful moments
  • help your person with dementia live his/her best life
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Who am I to teach this?

Hi! My name is Nadine Jans and I am on a mission to end the overwhelm, stress and loneliness of people with dementia and their care-partners. 

I am a psychotherapist and coach in Vancouver Canada and a psychologist in the Netherlands. About 15 years ago, I started as a psychologist in elder care in the Netherlands, helping people with dementia, families, and professional care providers to manage high levels of stress, caregiving, dementia related issues, anxiety and anger. A few years later I became an eating disorder therapist as well and helped my clients break free from  overeating, guilt and self-sabotage.

Then, after several years of working in complex dementia care, my own father developed dementia and I discovered it’s a completely different story when your own family member gets dementia.

I have struggled with depression, loneliness, shame, and over-eating  and after years of training and personal quests, I discovered the steps to healing and to re-wire the brain to live more live more free and full.

I developed the Experience-Centered Care with H.E.A.R.T. Methodology™ a cutting-edge system that provides a step-by-step framework to significantly improve behaviors, moods, and relationships so that you and your person with dementia  can finally experience inner calm and meaning in your life.



Carol Wittal, Recreation Therapist, The Harrison at Elim Village

I was one of your admiring and nodding audience at Elim Village last Friday.  Myself as well as my colleagues loved your analogy of the library and librarian!!  It made such sense.  Also how you explained how we store information and how the different parts of the brain have roles.  So well put and made amazing sense.  I looked at your website but was also wondering if you have written a book on what you spoke about.  We had to leave a little early and so missed your info. On aggressive behaviour.  Would love to have your notes or if you have gotten your analogy and descriptions  elsewhere could you tell me where or who so I can get this in front of my eyes to read and further digest

You'll get simple and practical steps to easily implement in your day to day life so that you take back control of your life



Discover powerful insights about the brain so that you can allow your brain and your person's brain to work for you instead of against you!

Tools and strategies

Discover effective and simple strategies to improve quality of life for both your and your person living with dementia.


Get the opportunity to connect with others and get all your questions answered in our private supportive community. 


This program includes three LIVE workshops:


On top of that, you'll also get these amazing Bonuses:

You'll get immediate access to the following:

Dementia Quick-start video Training so that you are quickly up to date and we can go deeper in the workshops. You'll learn what dementia is, the difference with Alzheimer's Disease, common types of dementia and  myths that keep you stuck in a vision circle (value $67)

Quick-start Calm Caregiving Breakthrough guide (valued $37)

Caregiving Healing Retreat Audio to accelerate inner calmness and increase energy (value $47)

Private Community Group so that you can ask any questions and receive support (invaluable)

Program plus Bonuses $37 USD

Feeling calm and joy is not about leaving your person behind, it is the opposite. It will lift up your person. 


Normally $497

Limited time: $37 USD

Dementia Caregiver Breakthrough Program

  • Live Workshop 1: How to break free from unhealthy habits ($97)
  • Live Workshop 2: How to significantly reduce your anger ($97)
  • Live Workshop 3: The H.E.A.R.T. Method to significantly reduce your person's anger and resistance ($97)
  • Bonus: Quick-start subtitled video course
  • Bonus: Quick-start Guide
  • Bonus: Caregiver Healing Retreat Audio
  • Bonus: Private Q&A Community
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Join the Dementia Caregiver Breakthrough Program 

I am so excited to invite you to the Dementia Caregiver Breakthrough Program.

This is what you’ll get: Immediate access to

  • Quick start Course
  • Quick-start Guide
  • Caregiver Healing Retreat Audio

The three LIVE workshops will take place on:

- June 2, 2021 at 10 AM PST

- June 3, 2021 at 10 AM PST

- June 5, 2021 at 10 AM PST

If you can’t make it live, no problem! You will have access to the recordings. Plus, you can attend without others able to see you, so you don’t have to participate, but you can if you want!

The first bonus Quick-start Course covers the following:

  • What is dementia
  • Common types of dementia
  • The difference between dementia and Alzheimer’s Disease
  • Myths and misconceptions that keep you stuck in a vicious cycle
  • Why healthy habits and self-care can be so challenging and what to do

All of this will be yours:

Time is of the essence

This offer is only available for a limited time. The best time to get access to this information was yesterday. The next best time is now!

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There is no risk for you

This program is jampacked with valuable insights and strategies. If you are not 100% satisfied, we will refund you. Just let us know within 24 hours after the start of the first live workshop. So there is no risk for you. 

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